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How to Use Purple Kiss Fusion Strap-On with Grinding Base

How to Use Purple Kiss Fusion Strap-On with Grinding Base

By Wet For Her | Published: 2026-10-29

Category: How-to Guides

Learn how to get the most from the Purple Kiss Fusion strap-on dildo with its unique grinding base for shared pleasure during partner play.

Quick answer

The Purple Kiss Fusion strap-on dildo is designed for shared pleasure: the wearer aligns the grinding base against their pubic bone, while the receiver controls depth and angle. Follow the steps below for a comfortable, secure experience.

Why the grinding base matters for both partners

Unlike a standard strap-on dildo, the Purple Kiss Fusion features a flat, textured base that rests against the wearer's body. This design lets the wearer grind against the base for clitoral stimulation during thrusting, turning solo effort into mutual pleasure. The key trade-off is that the base adds some bulk, so you may need to adjust your harness fit to keep everything snug without discomfort.

Step-by-step: Using the grinding base

  1. Step 1: Secure the dildo in your harness: Choose a harness with an O-ring that matches the dildo's base diameter. Slide the Fusion dildo through the ring until the grinding base sits flat against the inside of the harness panel. Tighten the O-ring or straps so the base does not shift during movement. Common mistake: Using an O-ring that is too small can pinch the base; too large allows the dildo to wobble. Check your harness size before inserting.
  2. Step 2: Position the grinding base against your body: Put on the harness and adjust the dildo so the grinding base presses comfortably against your pubic bone or clitoral area. The base should feel snug but not painful. If needed, add a thin layer of lube between the base and your skin for smoother grinding. Checkpoint: If the base slides away from your body during practice thrusts, tighten the harness or try a different harness style with a wider panel.
  3. Step 3: Communicate with your partner during use: Start with slow, shallow thrusts so both partners can feel the base's texture. The wearer can grind in circles or rock their hips to increase stimulation. The receiver should guide depth and speed—the Fusion's flexible shaft allows for comfortable angle changes. Common mistake: Forgetting to reapply lube. The grinding base can create friction against skin, so pause and add more water-based lube as needed.

Product spotlight

  • Purple Kiss Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™: Purple Kiss is a limited-edition Fusion dildo that combines sultry purple tones with a bold black Pleasure base. The black Pleasure base is the textured grinding surface that provides clitoral stimulation for the wearer during use.
    Purple Kiss Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™
    Purple Kiss Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™

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