How to Use a Stainless Steel Double Dildo for Partner Play

Quick answer

Start with plenty of silicone-safe lubricant, choose a comfortable position like missionary or spooning, and communicate openly about depth and pressure. The Le Wand Bow stainless steel double dildo adds firm, targeted stimulation thanks to its curved shape and weight.

Step-by-step: Using a stainless steel double dildo with a partner

1. Step 1: Prepare the toy and your bodies: Wash the stainless steel dildo with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Apply a generous amount of water-based or hybrid lubricant to both ends and to each partner's external genitals. Steel has no give, so lube is essential for comfort. Common mistake: using too little lube. Reapply during play if you feel any friction.
2. Step 2: Choose a starting position: Lie facing each other in a modified missionary or spooning position so both partners can reach the toy easily. The person holding the middle of the dildo can guide one end to their partner and then the other end to themselves. Checkpoint: If the curve of the Le Wand Bow doesn't align naturally, try rotating the toy 180 degrees or switching which partner holds the center.
3. Step 3: Insert slowly and communicate: One partner inserts their end first, then the other partner inserts theirs. Go slowly, pausing after each inch to check comfort. The giver can control depth by how far they slide the toy in on their side. Common mistake: rushing insertion. Steel's weight can make it feel deeper than expected—pause and ask for feedback.
4. Step 4: Find a rhythm together: Once both ends are comfortably inserted, begin gentle thrusting. The person holding the center can lead the tempo, but both partners can rock their hips to create internal stimulation. The spiral ridges on the Le Wand Bow add sensation on the way in and out. Checkpoint: If the toy slips out, try a position where your thighs press together slightly, like scissors position.
5. Step 5: Experiment with angles and pressure: Tilt your hips or shift your bodies to change which internal spots the ends reach. The weighted wand applies firm pressure on pleasure points, so even small adjustments can create new sensations. Try having one partner stay still while the other moves. Common mistake: assuming both partners need to move at the same time. Alternating who thrusts can be easier to coordinate.

Product spotlight

• Le Wand Bow - Stainless Steel Double Dildo: The Le Wand Stainless Bow is a sleek, solid, and stainless wand curved for an intense and deeper reach. One end features spiral ridges leading to a bulbous end; the other end has a smaller rounded end for targeted stimulation. The spiral ridges provide texture for the receiving partner, while the smaller end lets the giving partner control depth and angle with precision.