Using a Dildo Base Cover Cushion for Comfort
By Wet For Her | Published: 2026-10-24
Category: How-to Guides
Learn how to use a dildo base cover cushion, like the Shagger or Kissi, to add comfort and stimulation during strap-on play. Step-by-step guide included.
Quick answer
Slide the cushion over the flat base of your dildo before use to soften thrusts and add external stimulation for both partners.
Why use a base cover cushion?
A standard dildo base can press uncomfortably against the body, especially during longer sessions or with harnesses. A soft silicone cushion like the Kissi or Shagger distributes pressure, making penetration smoother for the receiver. At the same time, its textured surface—lips, tongue, or contoured tips—rubs against the wearer, turning a one-sided act into a two-way sensation.
Choosing between Kissi and Shagger
Both cushions fit most flat-based dildos, but their designs differ. The Kissi features a mouth-like texture with lips and tongue that provide targeted friction against the wearer. The Shagger uses soft, ocean-inspired succulent tips that bend and flow with movement, offering a gentler, undulating sensation. Pick based on the type of external stimulation you prefer.
How to use a dildo base cover cushion
- Choose the right dildo: Make sure your dildo has a flat, flared base that fits inside the cushion's opening. Most standard harness-compatible dildos work. If the base is too large or too small, the cushion may slip or not stay in place. Check that the cushion fits snugly around the base before inserting into a harness.
- Attach the cushion: Slide the cushion over the dildo base, pressing it down until it sits flush. The textured side should face outward, away from the dildo shaft. If using a harness, place the cushion between the harness and your body for direct contact. A common mistake is attaching it backward—the cushion should contact your body, not the harness.
- Adjust for comfort: Once the dildo is in the harness, adjust the cushion so it lies flat against your pubic area. Tighten the harness straps just enough to hold everything in place without digging in. The cushion should feel like a soft pad, not a pressure point. If you feel any pinching or uneven pressure, reposition the cushion before starting.
- Start slow and communicate: Begin with gentle thrusts to let both partners adjust to the new sensation. The receiver will feel the cushion's softness, while the wearer will feel the textured surface. Talk about what feels good—the cushion can be repositioned or swapped if needed. Lubricant can be applied to the cushion's outer texture for added glide and sensation.
- Clean after each use: Remove the cushion from the dildo base and wash it with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Both Kissi and Shagger are made from body-safe silicone, so they are non-porous and easy to sanitize. Dry thoroughly before storing. Avoid sharing cushions between different users without cleaning in between.
Product facts
- Shagger - Dildo Base Cover Cushion: Shagger is inspired by the ocean, with soft succulent tips that bend and flow with you, touching and titillating with every move. This design provides a gentle, wave-like external stimulation that changes with your rhythm.
Shagger - Dildo Base Cover Cushion - Kissi - Dildo Base Cover Cushion: Kissi’s lips, tongue, and textured mouth press back against the wearer with stimulating friction, turning penetration into a two-way thrill. It adds active feedback for the wearer, making strap-on play more engaging for both partners.
Kissi - Dildo Base Cover Cushion
